Jan 26, 2007

Kicked to the Curb

*sigh* I think I’ve been kicked to the curb. I emailed D yesterday about mixed signals I was getting: the strong pursuit, the seemingly caring things he did, comments he’s made about being open to a relationship, and lately how he’s backed way off. I received a response last night: He told me how comfortable he’s been with me from the beginning, and how wonderful I’ve been. But then I got the “It’s not you, It’s Me" and “I thought I was ready for a relationship. I want a relationship, but I just don’t know if I’m ready anymore.”

I don’t know what’s worse: 1) the uncertainty of not knowing, or 2) the sadness of knowing.

21 comments:

Lisa said...

Sounds like someone needs to smack him upside the head.

I volunteer!!!

xsquared said...

I have a frying pan and I'm not afraid to use it on his head - just let me know where to show up with it!

I'm so sorry hon (((hugs)))

Barbara said...

Not knowing is always worse in the long run. Been down that road.

Sending you lotsa hugs!

Leeny said...

Meari, so sorry to hear about the guy, it seemed like everything was going so well! I agree with Barbara, while knowing is going to be tough, it's better to find out asap than continuing with this dance that leads no where.

Hugs to you, and happy belated birthday as well...

take care,
eileen

Erica said...

I'm sorry things haven't worked out for you. I guess it's better to know now than find out after you'd made a bigger investment of your time. Still, it's sad all around.

Shall we get out the big deluxe super heavy frypan?

Kendra said...

Oh I'm so sorry! I've been in that situation before and it really bites.
Hope you feel better about it soon. (((HUGS)))

Sue said...

Move on...you deserve it. You don't want anybody wishy washy. There's someone else out there for you :)

Carol said...

Aw, I am so sorry. That is such a shame!

Carol said...

Meari, hang in there! And by the way, HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!

I'm tagging you for a meme. Check out my blog for the subject.

Keep on stitching girlfriend!

Margaret said...

Oh I'm sorry. Wishywashy drives me nuts!!!!

jymisgurl said...

I'm so sorry. Lots of hugs. He's just getting out of the way for "the one."

Vicki said...

I'm so sorry. (((Hugs))) sweetie!

Michelle-ozark crafter said...

Let me slap some sense into him! Please?!?! hugs sweetie!

Cindy said...

Meari, I am so sorry!! ))))HUGS((((
I am thinking about you!

stitcherw said...

Not knowing is worse in the long run, as you get hurt a lot worse. I'm really sorry, it had sounded so promising. {{hugs}}
Sue

mercy said...

That plain sucks :-(

Petra said...

Oh man, what a jerk!
Sorry Meari!

Petra

Sharon said...

Oh Meari, I am sorry to hear that-I was thinking that things were going so well too. Thinking of you!

Old Yankee Stitcher said...

Meari, so sorry I know you are invested in this.

Old Yankee Stitcher said...

Meari, so sorry I know you are invested in this.

Azzie said...

Forget him Meari! He obviously doesn't see how SPECIAL you are! Somewhere out there is someone for you who'll truly appreciate you! Lots of hugs xxx