*sigh* I think I’ve been kicked to the curb. I emailed D yesterday about mixed signals I was getting: the strong pursuit, the seemingly caring things he did, comments he’s made about being open to a relationship, and lately how he’s backed way off. I received a response last night: He told me how comfortable he’s been with me from the beginning, and how wonderful I’ve been. But then I got the “It’s not you, It’s Me" and “I thought I was ready for a relationship. I want a relationship, but I just don’t know if I’m ready anymore.”
I don’t know what’s worse: 1) the uncertainty of not knowing, or 2) the sadness of knowing.
21 comments:
Sounds like someone needs to smack him upside the head.
I volunteer!!!
I have a frying pan and I'm not afraid to use it on his head - just let me know where to show up with it!
I'm so sorry hon (((hugs)))
Not knowing is always worse in the long run. Been down that road.
Sending you lotsa hugs!
Meari, so sorry to hear about the guy, it seemed like everything was going so well! I agree with Barbara, while knowing is going to be tough, it's better to find out asap than continuing with this dance that leads no where.
Hugs to you, and happy belated birthday as well...
take care,
eileen
I'm sorry things haven't worked out for you. I guess it's better to know now than find out after you'd made a bigger investment of your time. Still, it's sad all around.
Shall we get out the big deluxe super heavy frypan?
Oh I'm so sorry! I've been in that situation before and it really bites.
Hope you feel better about it soon. (((HUGS)))
Move on...you deserve it. You don't want anybody wishy washy. There's someone else out there for you :)
Aw, I am so sorry. That is such a shame!
Meari, hang in there! And by the way, HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!
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Keep on stitching girlfriend!
Oh I'm sorry. Wishywashy drives me nuts!!!!
I'm so sorry. Lots of hugs. He's just getting out of the way for "the one."
I'm so sorry. (((Hugs))) sweetie!
Let me slap some sense into him! Please?!?! hugs sweetie!
Meari, I am so sorry!! ))))HUGS((((
I am thinking about you!
Not knowing is worse in the long run, as you get hurt a lot worse. I'm really sorry, it had sounded so promising. {{hugs}}
Sue
That plain sucks :-(
Oh man, what a jerk!
Sorry Meari!
Petra
Oh Meari, I am sorry to hear that-I was thinking that things were going so well too. Thinking of you!
Meari, so sorry I know you are invested in this.
Meari, so sorry I know you are invested in this.
Forget him Meari! He obviously doesn't see how SPECIAL you are! Somewhere out there is someone for you who'll truly appreciate you! Lots of hugs xxx
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